I'm taking an influencer: We always had a beautiful relationship, but suddenly I started to feel like a figure in his show
For many, the idea of marrying an influencer is like a modern world fairy tale. However, when a life connected with social networks and public life becomes a reality, it has its specifics. What is life like with an influencer by your side and what all does it involve? Let's look more closely at this specific phenomenon.
The love story between me and my husband, an influencer, started like many of today's stories, online. As his loyal fan, I dreamt about him for many months through posts, videos and stories on social networks. I was fascinated by his creativity, charisma and ability to communicate with the audience. One day, I decided to write him a message. I did not expect a response, but something magical happened, he replied. Our conversation gradually deepened and after several months we decided to meet in person. Our first meeting was unforgettable. I didn't feel like I was talking to someone who is known by tens of thousands of people. He was natural, open, and very smiley. Thus began our story, which culminated in marriage.
Our wedding with the influencer was truly an unforgettable and unique event that we had dreamed of for many months. It was a mix of romance, style and modern atmosphere, which represented not only us as a couple but also his personality and work. The whole day was thought out to the last detail and the result exceeded all our expectations.
Preparations that turned into an adventure
Preparations for our wedding began several months in advance. My partner wanted our wedding to not only look perfect, but also to serve as an inspiration for others. We chose a beautiful venue, an old industrial factory converted into a stylish wedding hall, which provided us with the perfect backdrop for combining elegance and modern design. A professional team took care of everything, from floral decoration to lighting, which created a magical atmosphere.
Our wedding was literally a feast for the eyes. We coordinated the decorations with soft pastel shades of pink, white, and gold, with flowers being the main feature. The tables were decorated with beautiful bouquets and elegant name tags, which were handwritten. Everything was perfectly prepared for photography, as every detail was thought out to match the overall aesthetics. We even had photo walls where guests could share their experiences under our special wedding hashtag.
A Unique Ceremony Full of Emotion
The ceremony was unusual and completely personal. We chose non-traditional vows, which we wrote ourselves, and this contributed to the intimacy of the whole moment. Live music from a band, which our partner knew from a previous collaboration, was playing during our "I do", and their version of our favorite song moved us to tears. The ceremony was also streamed on social networks, so that those who could not be present personally could watch too.
After the ceremony was a celebration that was absolutely unique. We didn't want a classic wedding reception, but rather a modern one, that would reflect our style. Guests enjoyed a special wedding menu, which included dishes from top chefs. Each course was a visual experience and suitable for sharing on Instagram. We even had a special wedding drink named after us!
Entertainment on social networks and beyond
A wedding with an influencer would not be complete without activity on social networks. In addition to a professional photographer and cameraman, we also had a team that created content directly during the day. Short videos, photos and snapshots that were immediately shared online. Guests had the opportunity to get involved through photo walls and creative content creation zones, which added an interactive dimension to the wedding. Some moments, such as our first dance, went viral and triggered a wave of feedback from fans.
First dance and magical evening
Our first dance was the golden gallop of the evening. We chose a specially arranged composition, and even prepared a simple choreography for it. As we danced in the spotlight, surrounded by our loved ones, the whole moment seemed like something out of a movie. Afterwards, the party with a DJ began, who was known by my partner due to his job, and the evening was carried in the rhythm of music, laughter, and joy.
At the end of the evening, we realized what an amazing day it had been. Our wedding was not just about us, but also about creating an unforgettable experience for all present. It was a celebration of love, beauty, and creativity that combined modern trends with timeless romance. And the best part? We have lots of beautiful photos, videos, and memories that we will remember forever.
Life with an Influencer
When I married him, I thought that life with an influencer would be a walk in a rose garden. My husband had already built a stable audience over the years, and partnerships with various brands were part of his daily life. What I didn't know, however, was what it's like to share your life with someone who opens up to thousands of people every day.
The first challenge was the publicity itself. Being married to an influencer often means losing your anonymity. People who follow him want to know everything. Even though we tried to set boundaries to protect our privacy, it wasn't always successful. Messages, comments, and even unsolicited advice on how our relationship should look came along.
Benefits and Disadvantages
Being the wife of an influencer, however, is not just about challenges. There are also many positives. My husband is not only a talented content creator, but also a hardworking and determined person. Thanks to his profession, we had the opportunity to travel, meet interesting people and experience things I had only dreamed about before.
On the other hand, his work never ends. Technology has made influencing a full-time job without a break. We had to consciously allocate time together, as his phone was often flooded with notifications, contracts and posts that needed to be prepared. It’s not easy watching your partner work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, even when you’re aware that it's his passion and profession.
Compromise and Communication: The Key to Success
One of the most important things I learned was to understand that communication is essential. We had to sit down together and openly talk about what suits us and what troubles us. We agreed that not everything in private will be public and that some moments, such as family celebrations or our personal conversations, will remain just between us.
I also learned to fully support his work, but at the same time think of myself. I found my own interests and as a result our marriage became more balanced.
Challenging reality of influencers: When privacy becomes public property
The life of an influencer on social media is often associated with fame, luxury and endless attention. For many, this profession can be enviable. Winning the hearts of thousands of people, influencing the public, and acting as an authority in a certain field. For those who are in a personal relationship with influencers, however, the reality can be very different, especially when you unexpectedly find yourself in the spotlight.
My friend Jana had such experience too. At first, it seemed normal and okay to her. Regular selfies, shared experiences and revealing her daily life to followers. However, it didn't take long and Jana started to feel uncomfortable.
"We always had a beautiful relationship, but I suddenly started to feel like a character in his show," recalls Jana. "My partner had every moment of our shared times documented on Instagram or TikTok. I felt like our relationship was just content for his audience."
Jana became a victim of so-called "content creation", where every moment in her life was aimed at attracting as many followers as possible.
It was fun, but then it started to get frustrating. I didn't want to just be a character in his video stories. The biggest problem occurred when my personal problems started to go public.
Many influencers experience pressure to share their personal life with the world, but few of them realize the negative impacts it can have on partners and loved ones. Jana emphasizes that it's not always about what is "appropriate" to share, but rather about how viewers feel when they miss something. "When our relationship hit the front pages of the newspapers, I didn't know how to deal with it. It was as if we had lost our intimacy," she says.
Her story is not unique. Many couples, in which one of the partners is an influencer, face similar problems. Privacy becomes a commodity, and while the influencer consistently gains new followers, his partner may be unhappy with sharing too much personal information.
Jana decided that their relationship needs certain boundaries. "We've found a balance. Sometimes it's okay to share something from our life, but not everything. Maybe it's time to contemplate what's appropriate to share with others," Jana concludes.
Finding a balance between the fun that is inherent to influencers, and respecting boundaries in personal relationships, can often be difficult. And while some influencers can enjoy popularity, not everyone around them may feel the same way. Communication and respect in the relationship are ultimately the most important things for preserving what is truly valuable.
Shared future: Building a family and dreams
Planning the future with an influencer also raises the question of how to balance work and family life. We realize that the world of social networks is changing quickly and that today's fame may not last forever. Therefore, we jointly invest in projects that will guarantee us a stable future.
Being an influencer's wife is an adventure that brings laughter, tears, and unforgettable moments. Every relationship is unique, but it is always important to remember that what really matters is love and mutual support. And this is regardless of whether your other half is an influencer or not.
What else awaits you in such a marriage? Interesting things like organizing public events, collaborations with brands or the possibility of becoming part of his content. However, prepare for unexpected moments when your private life becomes a matter of public interest. Many influencers can link their profession with common life in a way that is enriching for both partners, but sometimes it's also a challenge to maintain a balance between work and relationship.
Source: author's text, own questioning
